Make adapting to dining out with kids in Europe a breeze with our handy guide.

Want to avoid any major disasters when dining out with kids for the first time in Europe?

Let me share some tips that I have learned from a few failures and moments caught observing what the locals do.

First off, during my first visit to Europe, I was surprised to see people still enjoying their dinner after three hours. Along with the jet lag, I thought something was completely off.

At first, I thought it was a special celebration, but I soon realized that Europeans simply view dining as a pleasurable experience, and the pace of eating can be quite different from what we're used to in the States.

Fortunately, when I brought my kids to Europe, I had some knowledge and experience about dining out in Europe.

Here are my top tips for eating in Europe with kids and how to savor the experience together without any confusion.

!BONUS: While you are here, check out How To Find Family-Friendly Restaurants In Europe (For Foodies)

Eating in Europe

Dining in Europe is a special occasion, where meals are valued as a time for families to connect.

Although portions may be smaller, it's important to see dining out with kids in Europe as more than just a necessity.

To fully enjoy the culture and cuisine, treat every meal as if you are going to the movies where it could last at least two hours.

Tips for Dining with Kids in Europe

01 | ANTICIPATE LONGER DINING EXPERIENCES

In general, Europeans have a slower pace when it comes to dining, often enjoying leisurely meals that can last for three hours.
To adapt to this cultural difference, consider feeding the kids first, allowing them to have dessert earlier if needed.
Bringing along dinner table toys like coloring books, storybooks, or even an iPad can help keep them engaged.
And if you're dining outdoors, it's even acceptable to bring along bubbles for added fun and entertainment.

02 | DINE FOR PLEASURE VS. NECESSITY

Americans often eat their meals quickly, without fully appreciating the pleasure of dining.
In contrast, Europeans may savor every moment of the dining experience, from how the wine is poured to the presentation of the cheese plate. And finally, the moment when you bite into that piece of cheese and smile.

03 | SLOWER SERVICE DOES NOT MEAN BAD SERVICE

One notable aspect of dining in Europe that caught my attention was the perceived absence of urgency in certain restaurants.
However, what may appear as a lack of urgency is actually rooted in cultural differences.
In European dining culture, it is customary to relish and thoroughly enjoy every moment of the dining experience.
As a result, waiters may not constantly hover around your table, incessantly checking in on you. This is because they expect you to savor and take pleasure in the entire dining process.

04 | EXPECT MULTIPLE COURSES

When dining out in Europe, it is common to enjoy multiple courses instead of just one single entrée.
Typically, you can expect to have at least three courses during your meal.
If your little ones aren't particularly fond of one dish, it's important to remind them that there are more courses coming their way, offering a variety of flavors and options to satisfy their preferences.

05 | SMALL PORTIONS BIG FLAVOR

When it comes to portion sizes, Europe tends to go for a smaller approach compared to the States, where they love things that are "bigger."
So, if you're dining out in Europe with your kids, keep in mind that the servings might be a bit smaller than what you're used to.
However, I find small dishes are some of the best to taste because they generally tend to be well-executed.

06 | NO CHILDREN’S MENU

Restaurants in Europe usually offer the same dishes for everyone.
Don't stress if your kids only eat one or two courses out of the 5-6 courses typically served.

07 | ORDER SAFE DISHES

When dining in Europe, it's a safe bet to order pasta since it's a commonly available option on menus.
This is particularly useful when dealing with picky eaters among the kids.

08 | DINE OUTDOORS

If you can swing it, try to dine outdoors with your kids when in Europe.
It makes things easier if someone needs to get up and take a walk to stretch their legs, or if the kids want to play around near your table.
It can be less disruptive for everyone and adds a fun element to the dining experience.

09 | EAT NEAR OTHER THINGS

When dining in Europe, it's great to explore restaurants off the beaten path.
However, it's also helpful to find eateries situated near stimulating attractions like a lively piazza, a beautiful fountain, a nearby playground, or a pleasant park.
This way, during your long meal, one parent can take the kids for some fresh air and fun, while the other parent enjoys a quiet moment.

10 | DITCH THE DOGGY BAG

A mom dining out in Bologna with her family

While I personally still attempt to take a doggy bag if there is uneaten food, it's important to note that it's not common to request a "to-go" bag when dining in Europe.
In countries like Italy and France, there may even be an unspoken expectation to finish all the food on your plate.
Also, in my experience, the doggy bags in Europe are not as generous as the ones in the States.
Taking leftovers home might not be the best idea, as you could end up with a messy situation once you're back. It's generally safer to plan your portions accordingly and avoid relying on doggy bags while dining in Europe.